Is It Possible to Get a Restraing Order on Someone Who Does Not Harass You Directly but Through Other People?
by floodllama
Question by Charles Young: Is it possible to get a restraing order on someone who does not harass you directly but through other people?
For over half a decade this freak who used to be
married to my mother has stalked me indirectly
through other people by calling up every store near
where I live, leaving his number and telling them
to report on everything I do. He calls up the
landlord of my apartment and tells them I am a drug
addict (even though I don’t even know what drugs
look like much less use them aside from some pot I
smoked in college) so when I get back to my
apartment I find that all of my things have been
searched through and moved around. There are
hundreds of other things this man has done
including gain access to my bank accounts, had my
mail screened and read by the P.O., read my e-
mails, called up my isp to see what sites I search.
He’s even had (possibly paid) strangers come up to
me and try to have sex with me or sell me drugs.
Literally thousands of notices have been sent out
wherever I go and it is the most humiliating
process. I have zero expectations for any success
with a restraining order since the last time the
police got involved (5 years ago when I told this
freak I was leaving) they arrested ME because he
very cleverly placed HIS name on the title of my
car when I purchased it. MY lawyer was the best
friend of his wife and the “judge” was also their
friend so I was sentenced to “rehab” because they
found a legal prescription bottle for
antidepressants prescribed by my psychiatrist and
an empty pot pipe (I had smoked some pot because I
was depressed at the time). I don’t want to talk
about the place that I was sent to but they were
apparently directed to prevent me from leaving this
freak. I’ve basically tried anything you can
possibly think of to escape from this freak
including leaving the country (apparently passport
information can effortlessly be accessed using
social engineering). The entire police force of
mexico and every toll booth between cities was
given a flier with my information so that he could
find me. I tried several lawyers who told me that
they would help me get a restraining order only to
find that they stop responding to my emails after
they check on the information that I give them. The
social engineering tactics which I am aware of that
he has used include: I’m on drugs, I was on drugs,
I’m selling drugs, I’m a rapist, I am a child
molester, I’m an alcoholic(I don’t even drink
alcohol), I am a psychiatric patient who is very
dangerous etc…
So here are my questions:
1. If I try to file a restraining order myself
would it cover this sort of behavior?
2. Since everyone with any real power in this world
hands over my information to him, is it likely that
this could even be enforced considering filing the
order would give the courts my location who may
just hand it over to him to continue doing this?
3. Would this prevent the DMV, state department,
banks, and pretty much everyone on the planet from
reporting on my activities or harassing me?
4. Even if a judge grants it, how would would a
piece of paper stop this considering he could
continue doing it and just say he wasn’t? He tells
everyone he calls to pretend like he hasn’t called
and isn’t responsible for their behavior. (That’s
probably the most unbearable part of the harassment
is all the lying). Even the police force has joined
in on the harassment. Until I gave up on getting a
cellphone he had the police at the local station
give him direct access to my location 24 hours a
day using my number which he used to call up every
person I interacted with to ask what I was doing
and everything I said to them.
5. What is the possible motivation for this? Has
anyone ever heard of someone doing this before? If
it’s sexual he knows I’m not gay and he’s 30 years
my senior. If he wants to be my friend, he already
knows I hate him. If it’s parental why does he not
do this with his biological son or any of his
current step daughters? If he actually believes any
of the things he’s saying why does he not have
police try to prove any of it so I can serve
multiple life sentences in a prison (where I might
actually have some form of existence which would
allow me to escape from this).
I’ve gone through hundreds of motels, dozens of apartments, several states(by a factor of 3000 miles in difference) and three countries. Nothing seems to work when you can use mass communication to send out fliers, faxes, and phone calls to likely destinations. Even if I just live in my car I only have enough money to survive for about three more years, after which I will have to get a job which will reported to the irs along with my social security number. ANY Solutions are welcome because my plan is to jump off a bridge in three years.
I’m 27 and he’s no longer married to my mother. He has remarried and for some reason has a sick obsession with me. My only goal is to get the creepy harassment to stop. I tried three more lawyers yesterday and none responded.
Also, he’s tried to get me to do that (go to some form of counseling with him) several times. Let me make it very clear, I’m not gay, he’s not related to me or in any way connected to my relatives (my father and he have never spoken), and I have absolutely no clue what purpose that would serve. He’s just some weird older man who was married to my mother 7 years ago.
I’m not letting anyone get anything from me without my consent. When I found out that he got a copy of my photograph I considered hooking up caller id to one of the store phones near where I live and paying him a little visit. As it is, I don’t even know where he lives.
Best answer:
Answer by Cal
I doubt it.
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